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We trust that our little girls are our greatest riches. That is the reason Kerala is farahead of different states in India with regards to youngster sex proportion (1084 young ladies: 964boys*), female education rate (92%*) and mindfulness on ladies' rights. We have agreat culture of supporting the young lady kid and ensuring she's raised well.We even gloat of being 'ground breaking' and enable them to seek after the careerthey need. Be that as it may, with regards to their marriage, everything changes. Allof a sudden, we're never again the ground breaking, developed faction. We energetically, aggregately and cheerfully agree to the arrangement of share, as though it's something "typical" and 'acknowledged'. It's confusing to see guardians begin amassing cash and gold from the day the young lady youngster is conceived, just to ensure there's sufficient to "blessing" when she's offered. Intriguing that endowment, which takes on the appearance of "blessings" in type of gold, property, cash and vehicles, rises above religions. Individuals from all beliefs effectively bolster this social malevolence that thoroughly disparages the estimation of a lady and the organization of marriage. Accordingly the girlchild, who we cherish so much, additionally turns into an enormous, gigantic budgetary weight - particularly for the white collar class who strive to contend with their relatives and neighbors to direct a superior wedding, swathed in more gold. 

Larger part of the relational unions in Kerala are orchestrated, which implies the obligation to locate the "right" kid lies completely with the guardians. They look, they see, they talk, they choose and they settle the wedding. The main thing the lady of the hour and the prep needs to do is meet formally, have a short talk and say on the off chance that they approve of the proposition. What's more, truly, the "alright" depends vigorously on the 'heaviness of the blessings'. This is most likely the main motivation why the young lady kid has a much more focused on youth contrasted with that of a kid. She's continually observing different young ladies being sent off with cartloads of riches, abandoning her pondering what she really intends to her folks – a fortune like what they assert she is or a weight like they quietly make her out to be. 

At the point when matches are made in view of similarity between families rather similarity between the couple, issues are not a long ways behind. Love, comprehension and camaraderie goes in the background and what plays out are self images, control recreations, absence of ommunication and strife. What's more, when the two people are instructed and fiscally free, battles prompt fractures and bonds are separated, without the slightest hesitation. This is the place our state best once more – Kerala has the most astounding separation rate in India – 130 cases for each day, which implies five cases each hour. These incorporate cases that have been petitioned for physical and psychological mistreatment, the purpose behind which, more often than not, is interest for more shares. So what happens to our valuable little girls? Tormented by stress, tension and sorrow, they wind up noticeably unfortunate and lose trust in life. And all due to this alleged "blessing". 

What would we be able to do to shield our girls from this social disease and guarantee they carry on with a decent life? Blessing them self-assurance. Blessing them the flexibility and quality to choose what they need in life and what they need to do with their life. Blessing them the capacity to comprehend and cherish. Blessing them the bravery to address their issues and make sense of the correct arrangement. Blessing them right guidance at the ideal time. Blessing them all the help they require. Since these are way, way more valuable than all the gold, jewels and valuable things you can blessing her.